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When Elspeth Noblin dies of cancer, she leaves her London apartment to her twin nieces, Julia and Valentina. These two American girls never met their English aunt; they only knew that their mother, too, was a twin, and Elspeth her sister. Julia and Valentina are semi-normal American teenagers -- with seemingly little interest in college, finding jobs, or anything outside tWhen Elspeth Noblin dies of cancer, she leaves her London apartment to her twin nieces, Julia and Valentina. These two American girls never met their English aunt; they only knew that their mother, too, was a twin, and Elspeth her sister. Julia and Valentina are semi-normal American teenagers -- with seemingly little interest in college, finding jobs, or anything outside their cozy home in the suburbs of Chicago, and with an abnormally intense attachment to one another.The girls move to Elspeth's flat, which borders Highgate Cemetery. They come to know the building's other residents. There is Martin, a brilliant and charming crossword puzzle setter suffering from crippling obsessive-compulsive disorder; Marjike, Martin's devoted but trapped wife; and Robert, Elspeth's elusive former lover, a scholar of the cemetery. As the girls become embroiled in the fraying lives of their aunt's neighbors, they also discover that much is still alive in Highgate, including -- perhaps -- their aunt, who can't seem to leave her old apartment and life behind.Niffenegger weaves a captivating story in Her Fearful Symmetry: about love and identity, about secrets and sisterhood, and about the tenacity of life -- even after death....

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her fearful symmetry Reviews

  • Scarlet
    2019-02-10 08:01

    Here’s a question: What would you do if you had an overbearing, bossy twin sister whom you needed to get away from??a. Bear with it – she’s family after all.b. Elope with your middle-aged boyfriend.c. Get your parents involved and have a long family chat.d. Willingly die, and then try to resurrect yourself without her knowledge.??The meek twin in this story... she goes for option d.......This book was full of really absurd people doing really absurd things. The only way I managed to finish this was by lounging in front of the TV with a cricket match on and skimming though chapters during commercials.Having read and liked The Time Traveler's Wife, I was expecting this to be...well, not so terrible.Very disappointed.

  • Marigold
    2019-02-10 12:01

    My initial reaction was that I really disliked this book. On reflection, I still really dislike it but for a different reason than I thought! I think what Niffenegger was trying to do here was present a group of deeply dysfunctional characters & put them in a ghost story & let nature take its course. Why anyone would want to read such a thing is beyond me, but there it is. Elspeth Noblin dies & leaves her London flat, which overlooks Highgate Cemetery, to her nieces, 20-year-old American twins Julia & Valentina. The only conditions of the bequest are that they live in the flat for a year before selling it if they wish to; & that their parents (Elspeth’s sister Edie – these two are also twins – and Edie’s husband Jack) never set foot in it. We’re led to believe that there’s some deep, dark secret behind this. Much later, we find out what it is. By that time we a) don’t care and b) realize the people really affected by the secret are Edie & Jack – two “side” characters who appear in the first 74 pages of the book, & then not again until page 333 of 400! And Jack knew the secret all along, of course – AND NEVER SAID ANYTHING?! Wait while my head explodes…Elspeth, of course, returns as a ghost. I couldn’t figure out how I was supposed to feel about her until close to the end of the book. Am I supposed to like her or hate her? Was she good or bad? I’m OK with ambiguity & a willing suspension of disbelief, but if a writer is doing a book about a creepy cemetery; ghosts; weird twin girls who dress in white; twin-swapping; & grave-robbing – it really helps if the writer gives us some clues as to who is good and who’s bad! Niffenegger beats us over the head with some of the plot points (see below), but doesn’t lead us into the motivation behind her characters’ actions. This is the writer’s job. Julia & Valentina are the freakish twins. They’re 20 & they still dress alike – mostly in a lot of white. Oh, because they’re weird and ghostly! I GET it! They’re pathologically dependent on one another. Julia is the dominant twin who has, throughout their lives, decided where they should go & what they should do, while calling her sister “Mouse” & telling her that she’ll never be able to exist alone, blah blah blah. There’s about 300 pages of Julia & Valentina being snippy with one another, or depressed, or floating aimlessly about making tea, or bothering the neighbors. No wonder Robert doesn’t want to meet them! Robert is Elspeth’s boyfriend, & why Ms. N. would want to make this guy her male lead, I have no idea. A more ineffectual character you will never meet. I’d like him better if he was evil, but he’s just Nothing. Ms. Niffenegger pushes him here & there on the page, but he never comes to life in any way that makes sense. He’s writing a research thesis on Highgate Cemetery & has been doing so for years. (He can’t finish it.) He also leads cemetery tours. He’s obsessed with Elizabeth Siddall – he says, “perhaps because she was beautiful and died young.” Oh, & Siddall was a woman who ended up being dug up after she was dead by her lover, OH OH OH foreshadowing! I can’t possibly see what’s coming next!! He’s having trouble getting over Elspeth, but her specific directions in her will were for him to meet the twins when they arrive & help them out in their new surroundings. If he’s so besotted with Elspeth, why doesn’t he do what she wanted? We don’t know – except that the twins really are insufferable & I wouldn’t want to meet them either! So he stalks them for what seems like a few hundred pages. Why?! Why?! Oh, so that he can meet them IN THE CEMETERY where they finally show up for a tour! Page 171 literally begins a chapter with, “Days went by and nothing much happened.” (Wait while my head explodes again.) Robert finally begins to get over Elspeth, thanks to his growing attraction to Valentina, though Valentina of course looks like Elspeth. At this point, Ghost Elspeth figures out a way to “appear” to Robert & the twins & talk to them. Then there’s a few hundred more pages of Robert & Elspeth talking, the twins & Elspeth talking, & the twins being increasingly annoyed with one another as Julia tries to exert more control over Valentina. Elspeth realizes she can (wait for it) take the soul from a living being – which kills that living being - & if she’s quick she can put it back. She finds out she can do this BY ACCIDENT. Even though her ghost can’t so much as push a door shut. Hmmm. OK….So then there’s animal death (but Niffenegger makes it OK by ACTUALLY HAVING THE TWINS CALL THE CAT “LITTLE KITTEN OF DEATH” when they adopt it so you know it’s coming!) - & then Valentina & Elspeth cook up a crazy idea which makes no sense, & even Elspeth doesn’t want to do it at first, & Robert thinks it’s a bad idea but oh, he goes along with it, because….why? He doesn’t know but he tells Valentina not to trust Elspeth because “she wasn’t very nice, even when she was alive!” Wait wait, I thought this was the couple who had a love beyond death for one another….????! On page 316 Robert finally “brings himself” to read Elspeth’s diaries which she’s left to him. Oh, big secret is revealed….and….that’s that. Seriously. Nothing happens, because the secret has nothing to do with what’s been going on for the past 250 pages!! And then, 30 pages later, you find out Jack (Edie’s husband, father of the twins) knew all along. What the….?! No kidding, this whole part of the book could have been left out & you’d never know it…except Niffenegger needed a plot device that would keep the girls’ parents out of London for a year. Oh, and then the inevitable happens & we get past that & then Edie & Jack are going back to America & leaving their daughter behind because “she won’t come with us.” Ms. N., do you want to make your characters come to life? Parents don’t leave their child behind, alone, in a country thousands of miles away, when their other child has just died—even if the child is 20 years old. The parents would drag her off protesting, or they’d stay themselves. Having firmly established that if you’re a twin you must perforce be mentally ill, Niffenegger goes soft on us & lets us know that it must be better to be dead & a happy ghost, rather than alive & forced to deal with your sister. Yeeeccccchhhh. In fact the next part of the book, where Elspeth has taken over the girl’s body & is living with Robert, is interesting to me—but just when it’s getting interesting—What’s it like to live in a body that doesn’t belong to you? What’s it like to live with the woman you loved, who died, & who you have also described as “not very nice,” who came back as a ghost & killed a 20 year old girl while you stood by & watched, & now you’re living with your love’s soul in the dead girl’s body???!!! But at this very interesting part of the book, it ends! (Though apparently Robert didn’t really like the dead/alive thing….) You know who I really liked in this book, & believed in as characters? Martin & Marijke. Totally a side story—but I loved them. I also thought a lot more could have been done with the Highgate Cemetery setting – the book felt strangely flat & lacking in atmosphere to me in that way. I’ve been at Highgate & it’s pretty creepy. There was lots of historical information in the book, & lots of description about what it’s like to work there, which seems in fact very business-like! I don’t doubt that – a cemetery is a business, after all. The flats where all of them were living seemed a lot more creepy than the cemetery! If you want to read a really good, atmospheric, creepy ghost story with excellent character development, read Sarah Waters’ “The Little Stranger.” It also occurs to me – you know who could write a really great psychological mystery about these same characters, only leaving out the ghosts but just going with the facts of their lives as Niffenegger presents them? Barbara Vine. This kind of thing is right up her alley. A bunch of weird people living in an old building in London - & what happens to them. There’d be a death, but no ghosts – and it would be BELIEVABLE. You’d still hate the characters, but with Vine you might understand what makes them tick. Niffenegger doesn’t help us out there. As for Her Fearful Symmetry it was so bad it’ll probably be made into a hit movie. Just add vampires. Congratulations.

  • David Jay
    2019-02-16 11:01

    This was difficult to put down but I deliberately tried to read slowly beause it was such a pleasure to read. Niffenegger is one of the finest contemporary writers and noone does longing and stymied love better than she does.This book reminded me of "Time Traveler's Wife" as well as "The Lovely Bones." The stories center on an apartment building right off of Highgate Cemetery in London. One apartment belongs to Elspeth Noblin who dies on the first page of the book and bequeaths the apartment to her twin nieces in America, with the stipulation that they must live there for a year before selling and that their mother, Elspeth's own twin, can never set foot in the apartment. The top floor apartment is occupied by Martin, who suffers terribley from OCD. Niffenegger's rendering of OCD is the most painful and seemingly realistic depiction that I've come across. Elspeth's somewhat younger lover lives in the first floor apartment and works as a tour guide at Highgate Cemetery. This book is well worth reading BUT you really need to suspend disbelief and just go with the really wild premise. This is part love story, part ghost story, maybe even a little Sci Fi. Suspenseful, surprising, and beautifully written.

  • Athira (Reading on a Rainy Day)
    2019-02-12 04:04

    This is a very tricky book to review. I thoroughly enjoyed Her Fearful Symmetry. Having heard plenty of mixed reviews about this one, I wasn't sure how I would find it. On top of that, it was soon due back at the library, and I had 4 other library books calling my name desperately. I needn't have worried. This book definitely got me thinking and I like it when a book does that - when it stays in my mind for a long time after I actually finished reading it.Her Fearful Symmetry is definitely a challenging book. Challenging not because of writing style or incoherent ideas. Challenging because it questions a lot of accepted conventions that you might have. At least it did for me. I remember feeling the same after reading The Time Traveler's Wife. I would say that is the only similarity between the two books, that and Audrey's beautiful writing style.This book got me thinking about a lot of things, but primarily about the relationship between twins. I have never known any twins, so I can't say how accurate Her Fearful Symmetry is on this topic. But I like to believe she took an extreme case for telling her story. The twins, first Elspeth and Edwina, and then Edwina's twin daughters, Julia and Valentina, are highly inseparable. After being together for years, cracks are bound to appear. What I found interesting, was how each set of twins responded to the troubles in their tightly-woven fabric. When the reason for the estrangement of Elspeth and Edwina was revealed however, I was a bit disappointed, since that wasn't something I would expect to drive close sisters apart, not after being so close and sharing everything for almost 25 years. Maybe I am seeing it differently, but I expected something more severe. It just didn't seem a reasonable excuse to drive two twins apart, and worse, stay apart for years and not let any communications between the two parties. I almost got the sense the twist was included as an afterthought, like it didn't really fit in there. This was the only problem I had from this otherwise riveting read.Another huge element of this book is the relationship between lovers. How far are you willing to go to keep your other half from finding some secret? Especially if that secret is built on a lie. Do you never wonder if your husband or boyfriend really loves you for who you are or for who he imagines you to be? I found this question come up many a time in the relationships of both sets of twins. It is tragic because it leads to a lot of doubts that could have been avoided. It is sad because no one knows what's true anymore, and something the twins' father, Jack, asks Robert towards the end gives an idea of the enormity of this predicament.This whole story is set around a graveyard, and as expected, we have ghosts too. Elspeth returns as a ghost and is stuck in her apartment. Valentina especially gets to know her better, and in the process the two make some very unpleasant discoveries. I wouldn't go into that since it's a spoiler, but it's definitely a very strong issue and I think, unethical (even in a haunted world). The particular incident literally left me shell-shocked and, to use the expression, gasping for air. It's been a long time since a book did that to me. I've never been able to forgive the character responsible for it, but then Audrey Niffenegger's books don't really go in the directions you want them to. They more likely leave you with questions, tears sometimes, but in a strange way, satisfaction too, since they get you thinking more than if circumstances had taken a much "beaten" path.There were some questions that I found unanswered as I read this book though, and one was, why only Valentina could see Elspeth's ghost (eventually), or even sense it, while the rest could only feel the coldness of her touch. It felt like a tantalizing mystery whose answer I waited for.I love Audrey Niffenegger's writing style. That's something I enjoyed in The Time Traveler's Wife, as well, and I just found myself turning page after page, no matter how slow the story might be going. Not that the story is slow, but there were a few chapters, that I didn't care much for when I was reading. Like, one chapter showing Robert's nightly habit of sitting by the cemetery for a long time. Another one, detailing Martin's disease and how he behaves. After finishing the book though, I did realize they were important chapters since those attributes of the characters had great bearing on the story to follow.As in The Time Traveler's Wife, the one thing I struggled with in this book was the ease with which the characters accepted that which is not normal. In the former, we didn't really have any one shriek with fright when a man came about saying he travels through time. I doubt I would sanely accept someone telling me that. In Her Fearful Symmetry, we have characters accepting that ghosts can exist. Sure, I know there are a lot of people who believe in ghosts. But wouldn't you still get that fierce creepy chill that emanates from your back? Here I just noticed acceptance. Maybe it is just as well, since the characters stay near a graveyard or work in it. But I would have loved it if someone just shrieked and ran out of the house, once, just once.Overall, I loved this book and have a new respect for Audrey Niffenegger for writing about very unconventional issues. I think you need a great deal of courage to write some of the things she wrote about, since they are issues you will either be yay and nay for, and we readers can't very easily accept everything we read about, just because it is written in print. This one is a very different type of book from The Time Traveler's Wife, but nevertheless, a good one in its own right.

  • Jennifer
    2019-02-21 05:38

    Another Audrey Niffeneger book where I'm not sure what or who I'm supposed to root for. (Reading the Time Traveler's Wife I often thought the words "BREAK UP WITH HIM, ALREADY" while the rest of the world was weeping over DOOMED LOVE).Also, soulmates aren't real, and you don't have one.Back to the book at hand...I had lunch in a local cafe while Niffenegger was being interviewed about this book at the next table, and it made for GREAT eavesdropping, and I got hooked on the premise of this book. -I don't know who or what to root for. -I don't like anyone, but I often sympathize with their desires or motives.-The setting is DELICIOUSLY creepy. She has a great sense of place.-I visualize the story taking place almost in Gorey-style animation, like the opening credits of Mystery!. secondary characters were really well-drawn.-It is a ghost story with a proper sense of dread. -Some things that happen in the story made me feel the dread and wrongness in my belly as a physical reaction.-I couldn't put it down.-Like is the wrong word. I didn't like it. I don't like it. You won't like it. But I enjoyed reading it.Good Halloween reading.

  • Kathy
    2019-01-25 03:49

    Like so many other readers, I was enchanted by The Time Traveler’s Wife. There was a willing suspension of disbelief on my part (which goes against my skeptical and cynical nature) but the story was sweet and engaging enough to pull it off. Not so much with Her Fearful Symmetry. Again, through at least the first 2/3 of the book, I was willing to suspend disbelief and go with the story. But then it just got ridiculous beyond the point where I enjoyed the story anymore. Essentially a ghost story, Her Fearful Symmetry features two sets of twins, the older Elspeth and Edie, and Edie’s daughters Valentina and Julia. The story opens with Elspeth succumbing to leukemia in a London hospital. Her twin sister and nieces have not seen her in more than 20 years, as a rift between Elspeth and Edie as well as distance (Edie lives in Chicago) drove them apart. Elspeth leaves everything to the twins, stipulating that they live in her London apartment for a year and their parents are not allowed to visit. Elspeth’s ghost lives in the apartment and eventually learns to communicate with the twins. It takes a long time and some wonderful descriptive elements to get this far – easily half the book. There are some well drawn characters that add to the story (particularly the OCD neighbor), but after this long set up, the story just devolves into absurdity. Disappointing ending after a good start.

  • James
    2019-02-20 11:39

    Audrey Niffenegger’s ‘Her Fearful Symmetry’ is for the most part, a good, solid old fashioned ghost story with a contemporary setting. The backdrop to the novel, and what to an extent becomes the dominant character in the story, is London’s Highgate Cemetery – which is paradoxically an obvious but inspired and perfect choice. It’s a fascinating, hugely atmospheric and wonderful place to visit and is ideal as the setting for a haunting story of the supernatural such as this one. Audrey Niffenegger worked as a tour guide at Highgate Cemetery whilst researching the novel and successfully conveys the feel, atmosphere and history of the Cemetery throughout. This provides the novel with foundation of authenticity on which to base a story which clearly requires the reader to display a certain degree of suspended disbelief. There are nods to Dickens throughout, echoes of Susan Hill and notably (to an extent) Mary Shelley.‘Her Fearful Symmetry’ – is Niffenegger’s second novel and is a far less showy or flashy affair than its predecessor, the hugely commercially successful – ‘The Time Traveler’s Wife’. As a whole ‘Her Fearful Symmetry’ is better written thought out and delivers a stronger narrative as well as a more satisfying story than ‘Time Traveler’s Wife’. Neither does it feel as self-consciously clever as its predecessor. Clearly there are some plot contrivances, implausibilities and improbabilities to ‘Fearful Symmetry’ – yet somehow Niffenegger manages to get the story as a whole to successfully hang together.Niffenegger also manages to avoid creating what could have been a very clichéd, overdone, predictable and tired ‘contemporary’ ghost story – especially considering the basic elements here – identical/mirror twins, Highgate Cemetery, a grieving widower, an inheritance with strict conditions etc, etc. – But somehow, avoid it she does and in the process delivers a strong, convincing and compelling story. It is an altogether gentler story than ‘Time Traveler’s Wife’ and all the better for that. ‘

  • Malcolm
    2019-02-04 05:51

    Tyger! Tyger! burning brightIn the forests of the night,What immortal hand or eyeCould frame thy fearful symmetry?--William Blake, "The Tyger"When an acclaimed author (Audrey Niffenegger) takes a phrase from an inscrutable poem ("The Tyger"), readers (such as myself) are apt to expect a great story. Without a doubt Niffenegger's prose is elegant, her place descriptions (London and Highgate Cemetery) are exceptional, and her intricate plot has great promise.That promise is not fulfilled.Niffenegger speaks of ghosts that dissipate in to the ether, so to speak, because they haven't been dead long enough to figure out how to keep themselves together and harness their intent. I like this viewpoint within the story. Unfortunately, it also describes the story.We are introduced to several sets of twins who, as it turns out, are so focused on being twins that they (in one case) do fearful and silly things and (in another case) are relatively boring. In each set, one twin wants freedom and the other wants the status quo. Interesting? Could have been, but it wasn't.At best, most of the characters were totally dysfunctional with the possible exception (oddly enough) of the man with OCD who lived in the flat upstairs, up above the American twins who come to London when their aunt (Espeth) dies and leaves them an apartment up above Robert who works as a volunteer at the adjoining Highgate Cemetery. He was Espeth's lover both before and after she died.Like ghosts without sufficient practice and power to organize themselves and enjoy the afterlife (with or without haunting the living), the plot becomes weaker and weaker as the novel goes on until on the final pages it evaporates altogether. Yes, there's a grim resolution to it all, but it's a weak one and we no longer care.I suspect the author fell in love with the cemetery and wanted to write a story about it. Naturally, the dead came to mind. But they weren't strong enough to frighten us or make us care about the symmetry.

  • Teresa
    2019-02-18 05:55

    I read Niffenegger's first novel before the days of GR; and I remembered when I decided to rate it, I wavered between 3 (liked it) and 4 stars (really liked it). I ended up opting for 4 stars, because I did remember so much of it due to its sense of place and its unique storytelling. Her second novel has these same elements -- her strengths are obviously her imaginative story lines, which she roots in concrete reality. But the story, which started out strong, lost its way long before the weak ending.My strongest complaints, though, are with some of the writing. The point-of-view was all over the place, changing sometimes from sentence to sentence within a paragraph. I don't have a problem with this kind of thing if it can be pulled off, but here it seemed inelegant and clunky (even lazy). And while the writing was very visual (to great effect, in many instances) some of the details were unnecessary and pedestrian.It had such potential and could have been so much more.

  • Margo Kelly
    2019-01-31 10:02

    Oh my - this is the BEST book I have read in AGES! If I could give it more stars in the rating I would. Having just finished this book, I'm having flash-backs to the "Women in Literature" classes I took at the University of Puget Sound. I loved those classes because we would debate/discuss the significance of women and their relationships with other women and with men. I wish I could have one of "those" discussions regarding this book!This book is excellent on so many different layers and levels, my head is still considering them all.I was hesitant to pick up this book, because I had such a love/hate relationship with Audrey's "Time Traveler's Wife." However, I'm so glad I picked up this book. The language was clean and there was no "carnal" sex in this book (unlike my opinion of Time Traveler's Wife). So, these missing elements did NOT interfere with my enjoyment of this book.I had a couple of plot elements figured out at the beginning of the book, but the author took a couple of turns I did not expect and the layering of the characters was a real pleasure.I highly recommend this book. And, if you are a local friend that would like to go to lunch and discuss it - I would love that!

  • Kim
    2019-02-13 11:02

    Wow, disappointing! Kept waiting for this to get good, and it never quite did. The two major "surprises" are painfully transparent well before they actually happen (I was hoping that I was being misled, because it couldn't be that obvious, could it?), most of the characters aren't very sympathetic, and the pacing is slow. Glad I didn't give into the impulse to buy a copy for myself, and instead borrowed it from the library - I'd be even more upset...And of course, I'd be more forgiving if I hadn't loved the author's first book so very very much. It's like this was a first draft of the ghost story she really wanted to write, and it got accidentally published by mistake. Or maybe the sex scenes were supposed to be scrubbed out and it was intended to be a young adult novel?I'm almost sorry I read this - I waited so long for it to come out, and I wish I were still waiting, imagining how wonderful it will be when it's finally published. Perhaps I'm a little biased, but I think I'll go re-read A Fine and Private Place to cleanse my palate and remind myself of what a good ghost story can be like.

  • Jackie
    2019-01-29 06:57

    Just some thoughts: I loved this novel...but in a completely different way than I love The Time Traveler's Wife. I wasn't sure what to expect so I tried not to have any expectations, which is exactly the attitude to have going into this book. It has what now seems to be Niffenegger's style of writing that's smart & funny & quirky but somehow all seems to come together easily. It has a few curveballs, so don't bother reading ahead (like I did...only to confuse myself until I read straight through--must get rid of this terrible habit!). Overall, I enjoyed it because it's one of those stories that stays with you after you've finished the last page. I had that "I *have* to talk to someone else who's read it" feeling after I read it, and that's one of the things I love most about books: sharing them.

  • Wealhtheow
    2019-02-16 08:53

    When Elspeth dies, she leaves her papers to her boyfriend and her flat to her twin's children, the twin sisters Julia and Valentina. J&V are very pale, very slim, and although they're nearly 21, very unformed. They have no friends, no lovers, little education, and no interests besides watching tv together. They are astoundingly boring. Meanwhile, their upstairs neighbor is struggling with OCD and a passionate love for his wife, who has left him because of it. And their downstairs neighbor is Robert, Elspeth's grieving boyfriend. And their own flat seems to be haunted...Niffenegger has a beautiful writing style, and her characters always feel precise and real to me. She knows the specifics of their lives--what kind of wine they like, how they brush their teeth, what they feel at 3 in the morning. She knows every inch of their environments, and describes them with a casual fluidity. But although every other character felt real and probable to me, I never bought Julia and Valentina. For one thing, they flop around in their lives like limp fish. For another, they are SO DUMB that they even infect other characters with stupidity. (view spoiler)[ Valentina wants to leave Julia and go to school. Instead of just leaving in the night, or having a fight with Julia and then leaving, Valentina is sure that the only way is to kill herself, have a funeral, and then come back to life via's Elspeth's ghostly powers. Not only is this the worst plan I've ever heard, but then Elspeth and Robert decide to go along with it because hey, otherwise she might try to kill herself for realsies. At this point in the narrative, my eyes crossed. So two adults kill a girl, hide her body, and then try to bring her back to life, all so Valentina doesn't have to talk to her twin for ten minutes. Gah!And then in the end, Valentina can't get back into her body, so Elspeth takes over and runs away with Robert to be luvahs again, but he is racked with guilt or whatever. I mean, he still runs away with her and has a baby with her, but then he decides to run away. Clearly waiting to leave until *after* he'd gotten his dead girlfriend pregnant was the best choice. Ugh. Meanwhile, Valentina's death frees Julia to act like a normal teenager, and Valentina to become One with the Wind and be Free. Why she had to die for any of this to happen, I do not know.(hide spoiler)] I think Niffenegger was trying to write a book about codependency and secrets, but the secrets were so dumb (view spoiler)[(the Eddie/Elspeth switch was too idiotic for words) (hide spoiler)] and we were mostly told, not shown, the codependency. There are kernels of a much better novel in this book (Robert and the cemetary, or Martin and Marjike), but they are overtaken by the gothic grand gestures of the two sets of twins.

  • Rachel
    2019-02-14 11:40

    The fact that this book is titled after a line in one of my least favorite poems ever* should perhaps be a strike against it, but the title is quite fitting and somehow makes even more sense in this context than in Blake's use of it. This is the story of two sets of twins (hence the symmetry) who have an extremely odd system of relationships -- "system," because the story explores the highly varied and yet remarkably similar relationships between the four twins. To say too much about these relationships would be to give away bits of the plot, but let me just say it was not at all what I expected, and the title word "fearful" is definitely apt.While this story lacked (for me, at least) some of the magic of The Time Traveler's Wife, it is just as artfully written and explores the intricacies of relationships with the same deftness and insight as Niffenegger's earlier work. I would have liked to learn a bit more about Jessica and James, whose characters seemed to be placeholders and whose stories were never fully developed, but otherwise Niffenegger does a phenomenal job of developing a very intriguing cast of characters. Some of the traits are a bit extreme, perhaps -- there was certainly room for a bit more gray area on the black-and-white spectrum -- but overall the people seemed real and their actions were largely believable. (Whether or not you believe in ghosts, of course, remains up to you.)One of the things that delighted me most about this story was that the text did not seem to "Americanized" -- the British slang remains intact, and the text makes reference to London life without apology to a clueless American audience. I'm by no means an expert here, so perhaps one of my non-American friends can chime in on the veracity of Niffenegger's use of British English, but hey, at least she spells "bollocks" correctly (*nudge* Shannon). On the other hand, one of the things that delighted me least was how unabashedly straightforward all the characters were. Julia even points out that "American" may be a euphemism for "rude," so it seems that Niffenegger was conscious of how straightforward all the characters were, but it seems that perhaps she couldn't help herself and had to use this sort of brashness to progress the plot and explain some of the intricacies. Given that we see so many characters' perspectives in the narration, this seemed like a bit of a cop out. I can't say the ending was totally a surprise -- I could see it coming a few chapters in advance, especially coming as it did on the heels of so many characters' questioning and extrapolating. And to be honest, I have to wonder how much of her idea for this story came from talking to Neil Gaiman as he was writing The Graveyard Book. There are some interesting parallels between the stories, and in some ways this seems to be almost a grown-up version of the same (not a bad thing, but still...). But overall, I loved the story, and very much enjoyed the fact that Niffenegger continues to be unconstrained by the strictures of reality as we know it. Her writing remains a delight. * Tiger, tiger, burning bright / In the forests of the night, / What immortal hand or eye / Could frame thy fearful symmetry? William Blake "The Tyger" (1794).

  • Sue
    2019-02-18 10:45

    I don't even know where to start with this book. The fact that it was set in and near Highgate Cemetery in London gave it a creepy, gothic, horror movie kind of quality. One of the main characters is the ghost of the late Elspeth Noblin. The description of the twin sisters, Julia and Valentina, portrays them as almost ghost-like as well. They are whispy, pointless, lackluster, colorless young women who have no identity outside their twin-ness. The upstairs neighbor is a recluse who suffers from obsessive-compulsive disorder and lives his life in ghostly isolation as well. The book is divided into three parts. As always, I like Niffenger's writing style. She's interesting and easy to read and introduces characters with unbelievable (literally, unbelievable) problems like time-travelling or being a ghost with remarkable credibility. But she went off the rails with this book. It was an absolute and total train wreck. I felt like I was reading the book version of a campy Frankenstein movie. It almost felt like she wrote part of it with a movie in mind. The big secret that the author kept hinting at? One set of twins switched identities. Gee. Really? Isn't that just about the oldest twin prank in the book? Don't most books using twins as main characters use the same plot twist? Does that even qualify as a plot twist anymore?? I thought the ending was just downright ridiculous. And macabre. I loved Time Traveler's Wife. It was so original. And this one just felt like "been there, done that, eww gross."

  • Lori
    2019-01-30 08:01

    Many thanks to Regal Literary for sending me an ARC, and also to Audrey for accepting my invitation to appear here for a Q&A session!!I don't think there is a more fitting time of year for curling up with this novel - Chilly mornings, Damp afternoons, wrapped in a blanket watching the leaves change color and fall to the ground....It's a ghost story but so much more. It's a story about transition, about love, about separation, about strength, about deciet, about abandonment. It's hopeful, and sad, and wonderful, and pathetic, and confusing, and thrilling.It's everything a good book should be. It was beautiful.And in my opinion, better than TTW.

  • Nancy
    2019-01-26 07:50

    "The Time Traveller's Wife" this is not; TTW was a poignant story about normal people trying to live in, and make sense of, an abnormal situation. In contrast, "Her Fearful Symmetry" has a shortage of even moderately well-adjusted, let alone likable, characters and a storyline that resulted in a significant number of eye rolls and sighs of "good grief" (simultaneously, on occasion) particularly in the first ~1/3. I thought the 2nd 1/3 was more enjoyable as the twins became more individual, Robert became merely conflicted rather than disturbing, and Martin and Marijke were still trying to find their way. The final 1/3 covered a lot of ground but seemed a bit obscure in some interaction details (Robert and Jessica, Julia and Valentina). For people who "loved" TTW, I would recommend tackling this book with significantly lowered expectations as there simply cannot be anywhere near the level of emotional attachment to the characters. I suggest borrowing this book from the library until you have read it and have a better sense of whether or not you want to add this to your personal library.I suspect that Anne Tyler could have made a good book about Martin and Marijke, who I found to be more likable and (OCD aside) more grounded than Elspeth, Robert or the twins.

  • Amy
    2019-01-26 08:49

    Update-1/6/10. I'm amending my review of this book, and making a new rule that I will not do reviews for at least a day once I've finished. What changed for me here was a lack of connection with the characters. I can't rate this as five stars because I really, in retrospect, didn't like any of them all that well or how they behaved. I awaited this novel with eager anticipation and read it so fast, I will have to revisit it. I hate plot summaries, that is what Amazon and book jackets are for, so let me synopsize. London, Highgate Cemetery, Twins, Love, Death, OCD, Grief, Ghosts. Again, Niffenegger's theme is love. There are two love stories at the heart of this novel: the love of twins, and love that is cracked, but not broken. At first, I thought there was a third: love that is broken by death. But as I write this review, having finished the novel a mere half an hour ago, I have to take it back. All of the lines of the novel point out love that is changed by death, but never broken. Again, Niffenegger turns our expectations of a ghost story and a love story inside out, and leaves this reader with a new perspective on familiar concepts. In particular, the title, which I puzzled over for the vast majority of the book, became completely clear in the end. The characters are rich and well-drawn, each was an individual, and vividly portrayed. As with The Time Travelers Wife, each character makes moral choices that make sense within the narrative, but one has to question in the broader sense.However, it is this complexity of choice that has fascinated me about Neffenegger's writing. She makes the fantastical so real, and her characters so clear, that how her characters react is completely understandable. In short, I loved this book almost as much as The Time Travelers Wife, my second favorite book of all time. In presenting a view of life beyond the veil it reminded me of The Lovely Bones, as a new take on what happens after you die. As a story of twins, I gained insight into a world that Isn't part of my experience. As a novel of love, I am reminded: love is never perfect, love changes over time, but it is seldom broken.

  • Jeannine
    2019-02-04 10:50

    Such a disappointment.While I certainly didn't expect this to be a clone of The Time Traveler's Wife (and I hate when authors write the same novels over and over, like, say, Jodi Picoult), this book was exponentially "less than" TTTW.The main characters (Julia and Valentina the twins, Robert Fanshaw, Elspeth) were not likable or warm. I had some sympathy for Valentina and her desire to split from her overbearing twin, but the scheme concocted to acheive this was over the top (even more over the top than a time traveling man ... somehow that was more believable than this premise). Elspeth's experience as a ghost kept me engaged for a time, but at the end my sympathies for her, wane.The secondary characters of Martin and his wife were intriguing. Martin suffers from OCD and can't/won't leave his house, even after his wife of 25 years moves to Amsterdam. His story is the most triumphant of the lot.The writing was not as sharp as in TTTW, the pace was slow - lots of description of the cemetery (for which the author has great fondness, but boring to read about). Overall such a let down from an author I hoped would write beautiful stories for years to come.

  • Amy
    2019-02-09 07:50

    this book is like an episode of the twilight zone on crack combined with a shakespeare tragedy.

  • Molly Magro
    2019-02-15 10:03

    The beginning of this novel was lovely...beautifully written and intriguing, with characters I found interesting and a plot that had all kinds of potential. I quickly grew frustrated, though, with the characters' general inertia and then their downright horribleness towards the end (with the exception of OCD Martin.) I just found Niffenegger's ghosts so unappealing and their habits so not right and the whole soul-removing thing too bleh. Not what I wanted from this story at all! I still think she's a great writer and will look forward to her next book, but this one just really disappointed me. I'd say 2.75 stars.

  • Moira Russell
    2019-02-21 06:01

    I am now BITTER LIKE A BITTER, BITTER THING that this book, however panned it was, got its author a zillion-dollar advance and huge print run, while Peter S. Beagle's A Fine and Private Place, a wonderful book that actually combines the supernatural and the natural world beautifully, is still barely known. Pah.

  • Brooke
    2019-02-08 10:50

    I definitely don't know how to review this one. For context, I adored Time Traveler's Wife to pieces, and I normally keep my distance from anything that even hints of romance. The entire time I was reading Her Fearful Symmetry, I had a hard time remembering that the same author wrote both books. HFS has a nice gothic atmosphere, which reaches from the tone to the ghostly elements to the setting (London's Highgate Cemetery). I felt like it had more in common with Tana French's (awesome) mysteries than it did with TTW. The style and the writing were all excellent.Not so excellent: the characters. One of the things I loved about TTW is how the main characters felt like real, fleshed out people. The ones in HFS aren't quite as impressive. They're interesting (we have two sets of twins, a man with severe OCD, and people who work in the cemetery), but they never managed to become more than characters in a book. The plot is where I really struggle with how enthusiastic I am about the whole thing. I don't want to give it away, because there are some really good twists and turns, but the whole final portion of the book is the result of a character making a completely ridiculous decision. A decision that's akin to burning down your house to get rid of all the dust rather than just picking up a dust rag. I like what resulted from the decision - the ending is completely satisfactory in a morbid, tragic way - but I keep getting stuck on the absurdity. It's ALMOST enough to make me knock off a whole star, except that I enjoyed my time with the book too much to do so.

  • Rhonda
    2019-01-29 07:04

    I was somewhat anxious to read this work having enjoyed The Time Traveler's Wife and was immediately reminded of how beautifully she wrote. The opening scenes of Elspeth's death were touching, elegant and oddly reaffirming. I expected to be on the verge of quite a wonderful tale.However when we came to the American side of the story, the description of the twins was more than just a bit odd. It was especially lovely when they simultaneously give the finger to the television when George Bush is on. Just what this story needs: another dotty liberal-assed attitude towards things! Still all in all it made me laugh and I couldn't help wondering whether either of these girls had ever looked in the mirror: they seemed like a bad scene from a horror movie about zombies.I had a feeling that the author was attempting to explain something but in a word, all it was was creepy. When one of the twins gets her father a cup of coffee, I was half expecting it to be something like the following:"She set the coffee down quietly in front of her father and waited as he took a sip. It would be only a few minutes before the poison would take effect." Had I been an editor with this book, I would have had no trouble at all taking pages by the dozens out of this book. Perhaps this willy-nilly approach is considered artistic, but all I could think that it was just confused. Finally when I discovered that it was going to be a ghost story, I almost gave up reading it. But, after all, Henry James wrote ghost stories so maybe this would get better.In fairness, one of the sub plots was very well written indeed, with a very detailed description of OCD. One doesn't find much out about Martin except for the surface issues, but he is by far the most human of all the characters in the book. In fact, I think the author would have been better off skipping the utterly silly and twisted ghost story and sticking to the wife leaving the brilliant man with OCD. I also think that he would have pills for panic attacks, even if he didn't want his OCD pills (because they ostensibly made him impotent.) She did make a slight error, however, in that he was an expert in old languages and she had him translating something Assyrian in Aramaic (by which I assume she meant Syriac.) The language of the Assyrians was, predominantly, Akkadian. I see that there is some neo-Syriac, so maybe I should give her a pass on that. By the time the twins got to London, I didn’t like them any better, but the relationship started to change and I thought that certainly this was a good thing. However it then proceeded to run around in circles, everyone missing big clues and Robert the pathetic whining do-nothing cemetery docent, for some reason, won’t read the journals which Elspeth left him. God help us but that might make things clear! Personally I would have been gratified because that alone would have knocked about 200 pages off the turmoil.All was not horrid, however because the descriptions of Highgate cemetery were simply wonderful and one felt like he/she were there. Each of my few visits to London has always missed this treasure mostly because when I suggest it, my companions look at me as if I am a ghoul. Still with this book, I get the feeling that at least I have been there, not completely but partially.The really big issues, besides the twins living in the flat next to the cemetery which their Aunt Elspeth left them who happens to be a ghost locked inside said flat is that one of the twins wants to have her own life and naturally the other doesn’t want to let her go. Briefly a sensible option is discussed, like getting the solicitor to divide the estate and then going off on one’s own. But what kind of story would that be? Instead the twin decides that she must kill herself to get away from the other. Ummm, what happened to dividing the estate and moving elsewhere? In addition, Elsbeth is really the twins' mother! Gee, what this story needs is further complication.When Elspeth the Ghost kills the kitten, I admit that I almost lost it and gave up on the book. Of course she is so sorry and all, but really! You can kind of see this is going to lead to one of the geniuses thinking: “Hey! Let’s do this with a real person!” It was so silly I only continued because I wanted to know what other absurdities awaited me. When she takes over her own daughter's body, I only wanted to get to the end.The only part I liked toward the end was when Martin overcomes his OCD through taking drugs which one of the twins feeds him and goes to visit his estranged wife. Frankly I think that should have been the whole book. I kept hoping that there would be some sort of parallel with the other story but none was made.I wanted to give this book 3 stars but just couldn’t do it. The author writes beautifully but the whole thing was so disjointed and confused that by the end I really didn’t care that Robert the whiner had finished his thesis or not. The fact that he leaves his reincarnated wife and new baby just seemed equally incongruous.Please do not bother reading this!

  • Morgannah
    2019-02-09 11:43

    I have never read The Time Traveler's Wife, Ms. Niffenegger's claim to fame, and after reading Her Fearful Symmetry it is very likely I never will. This was not a bad book by any means but for me it simply failed to deliver the "goose bumpy" moments I so sincerely hoped for.All the variables were there, there were creepy mirror twins, cooky neighbors, a spooky cemetery, a mystery to be solved and even a ghost in residence. But nope, just because the variables were there it didn't mean the equation was in balance. What really let me down the most was I thought this was a Gothic novel, my favorite flavor. But it wasn't. There were only three truly Gothic aspects of this novel and all were totally wasted. The ghostly elements could have been turned into so much more. There was a beautiful scene early on, of children playing in the graveyard, and it was obvious even at that point that these children are ghosts. Yet they were not mentioned again until the very end. While Niffeneger clearly did her research on Highgate Cemetery, it was delivered in sections that felt more like lectures than quality fiction. The setting should have created an atmosphere, a feel of the dark, ghostly and ethereal elements the author clearly wanted to portray, yet it did not. It was clinical. Further to this, the Gothic genre is not just about cemeteries and ghosts; it’s about horror, and human nature, the gender roles that underpin society, and the evils that men (and women) do. Only one aspect of the whole novel achieved this, and it was dropped into the plot near the end, executed swiftly, and then rushed so much you could literally miss it.So damn it, I wanted this to be more than it was. Three Stars, Meh.

  • The Book Whisperer (aka Boof)
    2019-02-06 03:51

    Throw a huge cemetery, a cold & wintery London, bizzare mirror twins, a ferrel kitten and a recntly dead Aunt into a pot together and the result is a wonderfully quirky, melancholoy, spooky book.The story is set around Highgate Cemetery in London where a recently dead Elspeth has left her appartment to her twenty year old American nieces, Julia and Valentina, who are mirror twins. When the twins arrive in their new home they soon learn that they are not alone as it appears their Aunt Elspeth has never left. While it's sometimes difficult to know who to root for in this book, there is a wonderful cast of both primary and secondary characters that kept me glued to the story and there is a sense of such powerful emotions that they almost feel tangible: The twins new neighbour, Robert, was their Aunt's lover and his feelings of loss for Elspeth are painful to read at times. I felt completely absorbed in this book and I have to admit that I never saw what happened in the last 50 pages coming at all!It is ultimately a book about love, loss and betrayal with a gothic backdrop of ghosts, cemetaries and enough twists and turns that you never feel completley comfortable.Highly recommended.

  • Christie
    2019-02-17 07:54

    I'm vascilating between three and four stars. I lean towards three only because The Time Traveler's Wife is one of my favorite books of all time and so my expectations were high. What a creepy, twisted book! So fun! This is the story of enmeshed twins who live in their aunt's haunted flat in London. I especially enjoyed the sub-plot of Martin and Marijke. I think my favorite part had to be the history of Highgate Cemetary that was woven in throghout the book. Also, the poetry references in the book were awesome. (Now that I'm writing my review I lean toward four stars.) And the ending was very cool. The last paragraph, amazing. Oh, and Niffenegger certainly knows the art of sculpting language.I was put off by the sister relationships going on in the book. I think this is because I read the author's graphic novel, The Three Incestuous Sisters, and while these characters weren't incestuous, they had a very unnerving relationship.3.5 stars. How's that?

  • Amy
    2019-01-31 03:53

    I can easily say that this is the best new book I've read this year. If you like deliciously strange ghost stories, this book will definitely satisfy your appetite. I had to make myself read it slowly so that I could savor every morsel of the spell it cast on me when I would read it.At the center of this novel are twin sisters who inherit their aunt's flat near Highgate Cemetery in London. The twins (Julia and Valentina) are mysterious, delicate, murmuring creatures who are inseparable even at age 21. They're almost ghostlike in their exploration of London and the flat which turns out to be haunted by the real ghost of their aunt Elsbeth. The sisters drift and float into the lives of the other tenants of the building they live in in London. They wander into the lives of Elsbeth's sullen boyfriend and the Little Kitten of Death. The twins also wander into the life of a crossword puzzle maker that's so OCD that he can't leave his own flat (he accidentally washes a hole through the twins' ceiling). Just by existing, it seems that the twins can't help but involuntarily enter into the lives of those around them.I enjoyed the ghost Niffenegger has created in this novel. Elsbeth (the ghost) can occupy the normal amount of space a regular person might occupy, but she can also squeeze into a locked drawer to sulk for days if she would like. She discovers that she can move dust enough to leave a message written on dust on the piano for the twins. But the best thing she does is decide she wants to touch David Tennant through the television during the Doctor Who episode "The Girl in the Fireplace". As a result, she ends up blowing the television completely. As Elsbeth discovers her ghostly powers, she drives the novel to its obvious but still-interesting conclusion. I just love that Niffenegger was willing to go to the extremes I was hoping she'd go with this novel. While Niffenegger seems to still be obsessed with relationships with large age differences (16 years in this case), she also delves into the topics of suicide, bodysnatching, and ghostly possession in interesting ways.I found it interesting that the book is written in 3rd person, yet I felt like I was able to be inside the heads of so many strange, lonely people. It seemed that everyone needs something different from those around them. Maybe they want to be separated from those who are smothering them or to be reunited with those who have left them. But it seems that, in the end, only the ones acting the most unselfishly are able to find the happiness that they seek. Maybe we need people more than we think we do, but you can't need someone so much that you smother them.Note: While I critique both purchased and free books in the same way, I'm legally obligated to tell you I received this book free through the Amazon Vine program in return for my review. Blah blah blah.

  • Shannon
    2019-02-03 04:47

    I've been desperately seeking The Right Book. Unfortunately, The Right Book isn't from a specific genre, or by a specific author or set in a certain period in time. That would be too easy, you see. The book I'm looking for is one that winds its way into your heart and soul, takes you deep into the characters' lives and then squashes your heart, rips it from your chest and leaves it beating weakly on the table while you weep. Those books are hard to come by. At most, I find one or two a year. But The Time Traveler's Wife was one of those books - the kind that left me emotionally devastated and deeply satisfied at the same time. So when I was desperately craving heartbreak in a book, I asked my husband to please buy Her Fearful Symmetry for me on his way home from work. By the time it arrived home with him, I was 30 pages in to two other books. After reading the first chapter or two of this one, I set those aside and dove in.Her Fearful Symmetry, sadly, did not break my heart like I wanted it to. But I loved, loved, loved these characters. They are so real, so broken, so crazy - just like we all are. I found myself wondering which character was crazy in the way most similar to my own neuroses and I decided that we are all crazy like these characters, just less overtly. It says a lot about how great these characters are that I could relate to nearly all of them, male or female, alive or dead. And I loved that Niffenegger created them with clean, readable prose that didn't require the reader to slog through descriptions but did result in three-dimensional, unique characters who are neither innocent nor blameless.Where I felt a bit let down by this book was that I could see the ending coming. I prefer to be completely surprised by the turns a novel takes. (I will acknowledge that I was pretty far into the book before I knew what was coming.)If you want a book that has supernatural elements with real and earthly characters, I highly recommend this book. If you want a book that populates your mind with quirky, needy, devious and certifiably insane people, grab this one right away. I hope I don't have to wait another six years for Niffenegger's next book - that would be truly heartbreaking.

  • Zirra
    2019-02-19 08:45

    Took me a long time to finish it, almost 2 months! I'm so torn between 3 or 4 stars but I figured that I loved Niffenegger's writing in this. The book also has elements that I'm rooting for, London, some vintage-esque fashion and paranormal stuff. The only thing that bothers me is the relationship between lovers, as well as that little plot twist which I honestly saw coming long before it actually does. The writing is very enchanting, I find myself enjoyed reading about the residents of Highgate. About the relationship between main lovers, to be honest I was a bit disgusted and repulsed by the idea of it. I think it's a very unique story, I've never read anything like it. What hinders me from rating it as 5 stars is the fact there are some few loose points and unanswered questions that came up as I was reading this book. I'm also a tad bit sad with how the ending turned out.